{"id":54,"date":"2009-10-15T07:07:44","date_gmt":"2009-10-15T14:07:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/fathersforever.org\/wordpress\/?p=54"},"modified":"2009-10-15T07:07:44","modified_gmt":"2009-10-15T14:07:44","slug":"grieving-and-respect","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fathersforever.org\/?p=54","title":{"rendered":"Grieving and Respect"},"content":{"rendered":"

Steve’s comment to “Grieving At My Own Pace” reflects how vastly different two people can grieve the same loss.<\/p>\n

I read in his words and in his tone something I have come to find an important quality in how spouses grieve “together.” In a word: respect.<\/p>\n

It’s important that I respect the way my wife grieves. It’s very important to me that she respects the way I grieve, too.<\/p>\n

The respect provides in its own way messages of courtesy, honor, and a regard that emulates love.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Steve’s comment to “Grieving At My Own Pace” reflects how vastly different two people can grieve the same loss. I read in his words and in his tone something I have come to find an important quality in how spouses grieve “together.” In a word: respect. It’s important that I respect the way my wife […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":19,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-54","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/fathersforever.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/54","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/fathersforever.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/fathersforever.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fathersforever.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/19"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fathersforever.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=54"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/fathersforever.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/54\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/fathersforever.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=54"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fathersforever.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=54"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fathersforever.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=54"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}