{"id":65,"date":"2010-02-10T08:39:11","date_gmt":"2010-02-10T15:39:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/fathersforever.org\/wordpress\/?p=65"},"modified":"2010-02-10T08:39:40","modified_gmt":"2010-02-10T15:39:40","slug":"planning-to-feel","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fathersforever.org\/?p=65","title":{"rendered":"Planning to Feel"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Just a thought&#8230; I&#8217;m working with a client on developing a new strategic plan. They need one for a variety of reasons, including that so much of what they are doing is reacting to what comes at them day after day. Similarly, I know I often react to thoughts and feelings related to my losses. But what if I planned ahead? What if I anticipated in such a way that I intend to care for and navigate those thoughts and feelings which I know will come again and again.<\/p>\n<p>For my client, the planning process includes asking them a specific set of questions. What it would be like to ask ourselves some of those same questions.<\/p>\n<p>One of them is this, framed for this personal purpose, which I invite you to ponder for a few minutes: What do I need to achieve, preserve, and avoid by how I care for and handle my grief?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Just a thought&#8230; I&#8217;m working with a client on developing a new strategic plan. They need one for a variety of reasons, including that so much of what they are doing is reacting to what comes at them day after day. Similarly, I know I often react to thoughts and feelings related to my losses. [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":19,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-65","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/fathersforever.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/65","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/fathersforever.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/fathersforever.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fathersforever.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/19"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fathersforever.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=65"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/fathersforever.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/65\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/fathersforever.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=65"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fathersforever.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=65"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fathersforever.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=65"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}