Grieving At My Own Pace

As I’m grieving the recent loss of my father, I see how the grieving process is different among various family members. Susan, my wife, is grieving differently than I am, and it reminds me of the significant differences in how and when we grieved after Warren died.

I try to  take a “no fear” approach to grieving. I’m honest and open with the pain and all that comes with it. Susan has a delayed reaction and a slower process approach, which she sees and acknowledges.

I saw this when our daughter was severely injured in a car accident several years ago, as well.

How would you describe the way you grieve? Whether it’s your spouse or another close family member, what’s different in how they mourn?